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Alright, let's pour a glass of Frosé from The Roost and get real for a minute. Navigating the dating scene here in Sacramento can feel like trying to find parking during a Kings game—challenging, but totally possible if you know where to look. I'm over the apps. I mean, I'll still swipe, but I'm a firm believer in the "meet-cute" in the wild, and our city, with its big-city amenities and small-town heart, has some seriously great spots for it.

So, from one Sactown single to another, here's my personal guide to meeting guys, loving our city, and maybe, just maybe, finding a great first date spot.

Where to Meet Single Men: My Go-To Hunting Grounds

Forget endlessly swiping on your phone. Let's get out there. Depending on the type of guy you're looking for, there are specific habitats where they tend to gather.

• For the Active & Outdoorsy Guy: The American River Parkway is basically a runway for eligible men who bike, run, or walk their adorable dogs. Pro tip: A friendly "nice dog!" or "great pace!" can go a long way. For a more concentrated dose, try a class at a climbing gym like Pipeworks. There's something about trusting someone with your belay line that builds instant connection.

• For the Craft Beer & Social Guy: This is practically Sacramento's signature man. The brewery scene is our bread and butter. My strategy? Hit up the patios in Midtown or the R Street Corridor. Device Brewing, Fieldwork, or Golden Road are always buzzing. For a guaranteed crowd and great atmosphere, Drake's: The Barn in West Sac is a goldmine. The communal tables and fire pits make starting a conversation feel natural.

• For the Professional & Polished Guy: Think happy hour, but elevated. The cocktail bars downtown and in Midtown draw a crowd of men unwinding after a day at the office or the Capitol. Try The Snug for its cozy, speakeasy vibe or the bar at Kru Contemporary Japanese Cuisine for sophisticated cocktails and an even more sophisticated crowd. During the day, coffee shops like Temple Coffee Roasters or Philz are full of guys working remotely.

• For the Artsy & Cultured Guy:Second Saturday Art Walk is your best friend. Stroll through the galleries, comment on a piece you like (or pretend to understand), and see where the conversation goes. The quarterly "ArtMix" nights at the Crocker Art Museum are also fantastic—it's a party with a purpose and a great way to meet someone with a creative side.

Falling in Love with the City: My Favorite Landmarks

Before you can show someone your city, you have to love it yourself. When I have a moment, these are the places that remind me why I love living here.

• The Tower Bridge: She's our golden lady. There’s nothing better than catching her lit up at night, reflecting on the river. It’s iconic Sacramento, and that first glimpse driving into the city never gets old.

• Old Sacramento Waterfront: Yes, it's a little touristy, but it’s our history! I love the sound of the steam train, walking the wooden plank sidewalks, and imagining the Gold Rush days. It’s charming and a total escape from the modern grid.

• Capitol Park: This place is an oasis. The World Peace Rose Garden is stunning and honestly, just a perfect place to clear your head. It’s lush, beautiful, and feels so grand right in the middle of the city.

• The Murals of Midtown & Downtown: Thanks to the Wide Open Walls festival, our city is a living art gallery. I love just wandering around and discovering a new, massive piece of art on the side of a building. It gives the city so much color and personality.

The Best Spots for a Romantic Sacramento Date

Okay, so you’ve met someone! Now, where to take them? Here are my tried-and-true date spots.

• First Date (Casual & Low-Pressure):

  • Drinks at The Shady Lady Saloon: It has a cool, vintage vibe, live music, and fantastic cocktails. It’s dark and intimate enough to feel romantic, but lively enough that there are no awkward silences.

  • Coffee and a Walk: Grab a coffee from Old Soul Co. in the Handle District and take a walk around the beautiful old homes in Midtown. It’s simple, cheap, and all about the conversation.

  • A Slice and a Beer at Federalist Public House: The shipping container design is unique, there are bocce courts for a fun activity, and the casual vibe takes all the pressure off.

• Dinner Date (Things Are Getting Serious-ish):

  • The Waterboy: My go-to for a special occasion. It's classic, elegant, and the food is always impeccable. It says, "I have good taste, and you're worth it."

  • Mulvaney's B&L: This is the heart of Sacramento's "Farm-to-Fork" identity. The menu changes daily, and the setting in that old firehouse is just pure romance.

  • Aioli Bodega Española: Tapas and sangria! It's fun, shareable, and feels like a mini-vacation. The patio is one of the most romantic spots in the city.

• The "Let's Do Something Fun" Date:

  • Picnic in Land Park: Grab some amazing sandwiches from Corti Brothers or Sampino's Towne Foods, a blanket, and find a shady spot in Land Park. It's classic, sweet, and thoughtful.

  • Wine Tasting in Clarksburg: Just a 20-minute drive, and you’re in a beautiful, unpretentious wine country. A trip to Bogle Vineyards or the Old Sugar Mill feels like a real getaway.

  • Catch a Classic Movie at the Crest Theatre: This historic theater is an absolute gem. Seeing a favorite old film on the big screen there is way more memorable than a standard multiplex.

Dating in Sacramento is all about embracing the city's vibe—it’s relaxed but vibrant, historic but modern. Put yourself out there, explore this amazing city we call home, and hopefully, you'll find a great guy to explore it with.

Good luck out there!

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