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Navigating a new city can be a trip, and while everyone talks about the dating scene, I'm on a different quest: finding my platonic soulmates. San Francisco is an amazing city, but it's a thousand times better when you have a solid crew to explore it with. I've been scouting out the best spots that are perfect for making new friends and for awesome, low-pressure hangouts once you've found your people. If you're also looking to build your friend group, here's my list of go-to places for purely platonic fun.
The Great Outdoors: Parks, Hikes, and Views
The number one rule of SF friendship? You have to have a go-to park. On a sunny day (yes, they happen!), there is no better place to be than Dolores Park. It’s the city’s communal backyard. It's perfect for a "let's get to know each other" hangout. You can just grab a blanket, some snacks from Bi-Rite Market, and spend hours people-watching and chatting. It’s a low-stakes, high-reward friend date.
For something a bit more active, a walk or hike is a fantastic way to have a conversation without the pressure of constant eye contact. My favorites are the trails at Land's End. The views of the Golden Gate Bridge and the rugged coastline are absolutely epic, and the path is easy enough for any fitness level. Or for a classic city walk, strolling the Embarcadero from the Ferry Building down past Oracle Park is always a great time, with endless things to look at and talk about.
Culture and Casual Fun: Museums, Books, and Games
Sometimes you need an activity to bond over, and SF is packed with them. A trip to the California Academy of Sciences in Golden Gate Park is a blast. You can geek out over the aquarium, the living rooftop, and the planetarium. Pro tip: their "NightLife" event on Thursday nights is 21+, has music and cocktails, and is a super fun, social atmosphere to bring a friend.
If you're looking for something more low-key, I love exploring the city's bookstores. Green Apple Books on the Park or in the Richmond is a labyrinth of literary treasures. It's fun to wander the aisles separately and then meet up to show each other what you've found.
For a bit of friendly competition, an arcade bar like Emporium or a round of incredibly creative mini-golf at Urban Putt in the Mission is a guaranteed good time. It’s impossible not to laugh while trying to navigate their wild, tech-infused holes. It's the perfect icebreaker.
Food and Drink: No-Pressure Bites and Coffee Spots
A meal is a classic friend-hang for a reason, but the key is keeping it casual. The Mission District is my go-to for this. You can't go wrong with grabbing a massive, delicious burrito from La Taqueria or El Farolito and taking it to Dolores Park. It's cheap, cheerful, and quintessentially San Francisco.
For a group hang, a beer garden is the perfect solution. Biergarten in Hayes Valley has big communal tables that are great for conversation, and the atmosphere is always relaxed and lively. Similarly, the food truck parks like Spark Social SF in Mission Bay offer something for everyone, so there's no stress about splitting a check or accommodating picky eaters. Everyone can just grab what they want and meet at a picnic table.
And of course, there's the coffee shop hang. A place like The Mill on Divisadero, with its ample space and amazing toast, or Philz Coffee in any neighborhood, is perfect for a deep chat or a casual catch-up.
Finding the Friends: Shared Interests
Okay, so where do you actually meet these future friends? The best way I've found is through shared hobbies. Joining a class—whether it's pottery at Clay by the Bay, a cooking class at The San Francisco Cooking School, or even an improv class—instantly connects you with people who share your interests. And for the active types, joining a local running club or a social sports league (volleyball, kickball, you name it) is a fantastic way to build camaraderie and turn teammates into friends.
Ultimately, San Francisco is a city full of passionate, interesting people. Finding your platonic crew is all about putting yourself out there and having a list of fun, easy things to do together. Hope to see you out there!